Carmelia Ray is an internationally acclaimed matchmaker for high achieving men and the quality women they’re searching for. She’s also a renowned TV personality from Mom Vs. Matchmaker, The Real Housewives Of Toronto, and A User’s Guide to Cheating Death (Fall 2018).

With decades of experience and a tireless enthusiasm for online dating and matchmaking, Carmelia has established herself as the go-to attraction expert when elite singles are ready to find, attract, and connect with Mr. or Ms. Right. In her career, she has helped over 7,000 clients and interviewed over 65,000 singles on the issues, challenges, and successes of how to date, mate, and relate.

A serial entrepreneur, Carmelia thrives when working with peak performer clients who work hard, play hard, and are ready to meet their match. Her deep understanding of the unique lifestyle choices and challenges facing today’s modern man who’s blazed his own trail and is ready to meet a quality woman who will understand, appreciate, and complement everything he’s built is unparalleled. Clients rave about her concierge approach to the search for love and her never settle attitude that results in quality matches that last a lifetime.

A frequent media contributor, Carmelia’s advice and expertise have been featured in notable outlets including AskMen, Variety, The Hollywood Reporter, OK! Magazine, Global News, Cupid’s Pulse, The Marilyn Denis Show, CHCH News, Elle, Playback, and countless others. Her wealth of wisdom and experience has also attracted in-demand partnerships with major dating companies including, Lava Life, Instant Chemistry, and more.

When she’s not supporting clients in their search for love, she’s traveling and loving life with her extraordinary husband, and family (4 kids and 2 American bulldogs).

My dating advice has been featured on AskMen, Variety, OK! Magazine, Cupid’s Pulse, Elite Daily, YourTango, Dating Advice, Best Dating Sites, POF, & more!


Matchmaker & Date Coaching History

I have been working in the matchmaking industry since 1992 spending most of  my career working directly by phone, or in person interviewing over 65,000 singles North American wide. Our discussions are about real life dating and relationship challenges, where it comes to finding, meeting and connecting with the right one. This is a natural fit for me, because I love helping people and I’ve been told I have the gift of gab! I’ve worked with singles in many demographics and lifestyle. My business and clientele has changed throughout the years and I’m currently servicing high quality, high calibre, high net-worth and highly motivated entrepreneurs and business owners to find love.

I have been coined a matchmaking expert and co-host the largest matchmaking and date coaching conference through iDate, the internet dating conference. I’ve attended hundreds of events, met thousands of single men and women who have shared their personal dating stories and challenges to finding love. My e-Book, Finding The One: Your A-Z guide to Attracting and Keeping Your Soul Mate, includes tips and secrets to achieving one’s goal of meeting the right person.