Another year has passed and yet, here you are, still looking for love. It could be bad timing, poor choices, or the right one has not yet come along. Whatever is the reason for being dateless, one thing is for sure: the law of attraction can help you in the world of dating.
How is that possible? Here’s five dating tips for women using the law of attraction:
- Know What You Want for a Date
Admit it. When you were younger, you dreamed of meeting your own Prince Charming. You imagine him taking you out on a date, where you are treated to the best experience of your life.
Apply that belief in the dating world.
Believe it or not, you can visualize your perfect date – starting with the perfect partner and how your perfect day will go. Visualize where you want to go, what type of food to eat, how your date will look, and even what you can do after. It also helps if you write the details on how you want your date to go, which will lead to 80 percent assurance of getting what you want. At the same time, it shows how serious you are towards achieving your goal.
2. Make a Dream Board
Here’s the thing: the connection between the law of attraction and dating doesn’t end with visualizing the perfect date and going out with someone. In fact, you should be able to visualize everything you can about your relationship.
This is where a dream board comes in. Fill the board with images of how you want your dating life will go and make sure to place it in an area where you will always be reminded of it. Don’t forget to include empowering words that you can associate with you.
3. Turn Your Shyness into Assertiveness
It is normal to feel shy especially during the first few minutes of your first date. Despite visualizing on how your day will go, awkwardness will always come into play especially if it is the first time. This is why it is important to “break the ice” to ease the tension and make the encounter more comfortable.
How can you turn yourself from being shy to being assertive?
The first step is to feel comfortable with yourself. Then, translate your thoughts into actions, but make sure you look natural. Don’t be afraid to ask questions to get to know your date a little bit better, but stay away from controversial topics for now. Find a common ground to help you break the ice.
The key here is to be yourself. When you are comfortable with yourself, you will be able to attract your date naturally.
4. Be Confident in Yourself and Develop a Positive Attitude
You finally went out of your comfort zone and slowly embracing the world you are revolving into. As you start to become comfortable with yourself, you slowly develop the confidence in you, which makes you more attractive.
Don’t just stop with building confidence. Make sure you also develop a positive attitude towards love and relationship. Past, painful relationships may find ways to haunt you and change your views about love. Don’t let that happen.
The law of attraction dictates “like attracts like.” This means the positive you are, the more you will attract positive vibes. Apply that to dating. The more you maintain the positive attitude and disposition in the dating world, the more you will attract someone from the opposite sex.
Start developing a positive attitude towards the kind of relationship you want and you will surely get it.
5. Enjoy Life and Do the Things You Always Wanted
Your goal is to meet your partner for life, which is the reason why you go on dates. Still, don’t forget yourself. When it comes to dating, the most important tool you have is yourself, which will also make you more attractive to the opposite sex. The more you stay true to yourself, the better you will be in the eyes of other people.
Therefore, continue doing the things you always wanted. If you love to cook, bake, read a book, or travel, go ahead and do it. If you are into arts and crafts, calligraphy, or even crochet, make sure to stick to your passion. Don’t forget that part of yourself when you are in the dating world. Believe it or not, you will make yourself more interesting by sticking to your hobbies and passion than locking yourself inside the room doing nothing.
More importantly, spend time with yourself. Life is too short to waste. The better you feel about yourself, the better your disposition will be, which makes you more attractive.
The law of attraction is simple: you attract something – or someone – that you focus on. Before you go on a date, take note of these five simple but effective tips and who knows, you might attract the man of your dreams.
Mason Brown works at DeRoberts law firm. He loves to write well researched and high quality content on different topics related to marriage, family, financial issues and business opportunities. He also devotes himself to coaching and counseling clients.