How The Matchmaking Process Works

I’ve partnered with the top dating companies, dating sites, mobile dating apps and leading Matchmakers around the world, to give you access to high end, personalized, professional & elite matchmaking. Netflix’s new show about Indian Matchmaking gives a good perspective about the complexities of professional matchmaking and the real life struggle singles go through, when finding a life partner for marriage. 

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Step 1

Complete Your Confidential Matchmaking Profile

Your personal information is always private and confidential. You can choose to become a paying and verified client or join our free database. Verified matchmaking clients and database members are available to be matched with our elite network of high caliber, successful singles. Active clients will be assigned to a matchmaking team, dedicated to support their dating and relationship goals. 

Step 2

Meet your Matchmaker & Dating Coach

After choosing your matchmaking program the next step is to schedule your personal, in-depth matchmaking consultation or date coaching strategy session. All coaching and matchmaking clients, as well as potential matches are screened and qualified in person or via Skype/Video conference. We screen clients  for emotional, mental, physical and financial stability. Your matchmaking consultation is the first step to qualify and get approved to join our verified roster. If we are not a match to help you with your relationship goals, you will be referred to one of our partnering matchmakers or dating agencies. Carmelia Ray has personally interviewed over 65,000 singles worldwide and has viewed thousands of online dating profiles.

Step 3

Recruitment and Vetting process

Select your personalized matchmaking program and let the search process begin! An experienced, professional matchmaker begins with getting to know you on a deeper level. A series of customized, personality profiles and questionnaires will be completed independently. Your profile is carefully reviewed in person with the matchmaking team. Carmelia’s team of matchmakers, date coaches and dating professionals are required to have a minimum of 5 years, dating industry experience. You will also be assigned an online dating profile manager,  relationship recruiter and other lifestyle experts. All potential matchmaking referral candidates go through the same detailed vetting process. Online concierge services and personal recruitment will be customized to each client. Whether you’re interested in traditional matchmaking or want us to work on a specific search like Indian Matchmaking, Jewish Matchmaking, Black Matchmaking or Millionaire Matchmaking, we’ll create the program to suit your needs.

Step 4

Date Concierge & Online Dating Profile Management

Tired of online dating and swiping endlessly on mobile dating apps? We get it. Our online matchmaking concierge service is an innovative and proprietary matchmaking process. We’ve perfected the online search to identify the best candidates online. All traditional offline matches are hand picked and approved by you. You will receive a detailed personal and professional bio of your suggested match. Once a mutual match is made, we take care of all the date planning and coordination. We collaborate with exclusive restaurants, hotels, private clubs, high end venues, fine dining establishments and luxury concierge services, to provide you with an exceptional dating experience. We take the stress out of meeting and support you from start to finish. Wardrobe selection, image consulting, styling and date coaching are all included in our VIP programs. Carmelia Ray is considered the be one of the most successful matchmakers in North America with almost 30 years of  working with top entrepreneurs and corporate executives. She is a Millionaire Matchmaker who understands the importance of pairing high status singles to an equally impressive romantic partner.

Step 5

Date Feedback & Happy Hold Feature

An integral part of your dating success is the pre date and post date feedback we receive from both parties after a date. The matchmaking process takes time and evolves as you go through the dating process. Carmelia Ray works with successful entrepreneurs and business owners who possess a positive mindset and an attitude of gratitude. Even when a date is not a romantic match, every interaction with someone new is an opportunity to learn, grow and change any behaviours that might be stopping someone from finding love. All of Carmelia Ray’s private clients work closely and personally with her and her team to achieve their desired relationship goals. Carmelia Ray is an award winning dating coach and the current “2020 BEST DATING COACH” as voted by the iDate awards.

Step 6

Have Fun!

Schedule your personal in depth matchmaking consultation or date coaching strategy session. All clients and potential matches are screened and qualified in person for emotional, mental, physical and financial stability.

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